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THE TAO (WAY) TO LIMITLESS KIDS

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MAD MONSTERS OR MAD SCIENTISTS?

It's our profound choice today?

"Oh the mind, a great find,

or more grind. An open

mind, or a thin rind?"
- Valerie J. Elly
(Will the psychology fraternity accept new paradigms of the TRUTH?)

A cool WEPI hypotheses designed to create global debate to enable us to better build a better future for our world and our humanity

"What limitless possibilities if we adults really unconditionally loved our children?"
- WEPI

The TAO (way) of superior wall building, a new paradigm for the new millennium, the platform for a new beginning ...

"It is and it must in the long run be better for man to see things as they are than to be ignorant of them"
- A. E. Houseman

What you are about to absorb may well transform your life forever, depending on the size of your heart, your mind, your soul, and of your ego, and how willing you are to accept a more robust and truer REALITY to emancipate and empower every single one of our limitless children around the world.

This profound and most disturbing hypothesis may be well off the mark, but its bold purpose is to help us to save all the children of the world from the fatal path we are all heading for.

It is from the perspective of a FOREST WATCHER watching the forest (the psychology profession) and how after many generations the psychology gurus have failed to enlighten us and help us to end our misery and pain and our insatiable desire for self-destruction ...

When you acquire something, it owns you, not you own it, as we are erroneously led to believe!

The WALL, BRICK and MORTAR metaphors are used not as a simplistic structural description for the future, but as a path to superior growth, because we live and reflect our metaphors, don’t we?

Our metaphors emancipate or imprison our hearts, souls and minds.

Are we good bricks or bad bricks or foolish indifferent bricks who just don’t give a rat's butt about the quality of the mortar that holds our humanity together because we're too busy looking good surrounded by our material attachments or just too busy surviving to give a crap about tomorrow?

The WALL is SOCIETY!
The BRICK is YOU and ME!
The MORTAR is the ELEMENTS ...
That hold us either tightly or loosely together!

Society is like a great wall, and we are all super cool vital little bricks in that wall. The wall must go super deep, and it must also go super wide and encapsulate quality, to enable us to lay the critical solid foundations for a future of limitless growth.

The deeper the quality foundations we lay, the higher the wall can safely and robustly grow or be built.

That means the deeper the quality foundations of society are based on TRUE REALITY, the more stable the society can be. And the higher we can safely grow. Because erroneous psychological fads come and go, but The Truth (TRUE REALITY as opposed to MAN MADE DELUSIONS), always endures.

True REALITY for humanity's evolution is a natural force just as irrefutable as gravity and magnetism, so we cannot break it, we can only break ourselves against it. TRUE REALITY is impenetrable, incontrovertible, and unrelenting, it cannot be defied. Even the powerful decaying forces of time cannot erode the foundations of REALITY, just as time cannot destroy any primordial force.

Nor can humanity’s deluded mind-games be foisted on TRUE REALITY’s enduring limitless powers.

So this profound TRUE REALITY means that any society or any institution that is built on the foundations of TRUE REALITY, will endure the ruthless and unforgiving tests of time. And it will surely endure the tamperings from a less enlightened humanity.

Therefore as wise Wall Builders, shouldn’t we be building our precious societies on the foundations of TRUE REALITY - THE TRUTH?

Shouldn’t we want to know the truth, despite the tragic consequences to our current erroneous structures or cushy over paid academic ivory towers?

Shouldn’t we be courageous enough and wise enough and humble enough and emotionally stable enough to take our CEREBRAL SACRED COWS and blow them away so that we are left with the purity and robustness that is TRUE REALITY? Therefore allowing us to be totally free of our limiting attachments so that we can build our very best most robust societies.

We don't know what the right questions are, and therefore we cannot possibly know what the right answers are, but ask we must for humanity's sake!

With this special WEPI KOOL TOOL (like other WEPI KOOL TOOLs) we will be clutching blindly in the dark for that illusive needle in the hay stack, in a deliberate effort to bring together acadamia, the education systems, the public, the professions, the corporate sector, and more importantly, governments, the adults and children of the world ...

To create an open and emancipating global debate, so that we can once and for all scrape away that which must be scraped away, to reveal that which must be revealed, so that we can all know that which alone has the profound powers to free us to build our robust grand social monuments that will endure the unendurables of our frailties and of time.

A mouth full, but a profound and critical mouth full. A TRUE VISION FOR THE NEW MILLENNIUM.

"The wise build their walls one precious brick at a time, while the unsuccessful throw their bricks into a heap of rubble and come back the next day hoping that the wall has somehow magically built itself ... which the wise know is totally impossible"
- Valerie J. Elly

And what is TRUE REALITY?

"Somehow if you really attend to the REAL, it tells you everything"
- Robert C. Pollock

TRUE REALITY is what is left when we dig deep to find the courage, the will, the heart, and the accountability to scrape away the grit and grime of our egos and fears and transcend our narrow, self-serving paradigms, dogmas, mores, traditions, customs, ids, egos, neurosis and crap. And what is left still standing for all to see ... is TRUE REALITY.

Everyone has to be accountable and join this critical debate today because everyone is an integral and critical brick in the wall of humanity - past, present and future. We all contribute whether good or bad to our local, regional and global walls. We do it consciously or unconsciously.

Even if we drop out of society to become a destitute, or escape to a tropical island, we continue to contribute through our absence. Because the world either becomes less or more effective because of the absence of our contributions to society.

This magical universal phenomena is called synchronicity!

Where every little thing we do in our local society is reflected in EVERY society on the planet, because we are all inextricably linked by a totally awesome magical supernatural universal force called SYNCHRONICITY.

Why not?

Most of us worship some form of supernatural god who somehow magically watches over us no matter where we may be in the universe, don’t we?

If we reject synchronicity we must reject our gods, radio, TV and microwave ovens as well.

So let’s embrace the super cool supernatural forces of synchronicity and use them to go forward to empower our kids and empower our world.

Synchronicity will give us a greater accountability because each of us will act with a greater empathy and greater wisdom for a greater cause for us all.

TAO is the ancient Chinese word for the Way or the Path to REALITY or the TRUTH

So the TRUE REALITY here is that -

"no matter how far we may physically or mentally try to run from our duties"

We can never run far enough away to escape our wall building accountabilities to our society and to our world.

The TRUE REALITY we are dealing with here is not our deluded, edited, filtered, egoed, self-centered version, but the TRUE MAGICAL REALITY that is The TAO - The Way it must be if true victory in this new millennium is our goal.

The terms The TAO, The Way, and TRUE REALITY are interchangeable. They are one and the same. TAO is The Way to TRUE REALITY, and TRUE REALITY is The Way to The TAO.

So let’s begin on the path to finding better elements for a superior clay mixture and mortar, so that we can nurture better bricks (children) and more powerful mortars (paradigms) which in turn will allow us to build better more effective, more enduring, more peaceful, more joyous, more dynamic, more accountable and more loving social walls for every society.

But why is TRUE REALITY so important?

"It takes a lot of things to prove you are smart, but only one thing to prove you are ignorant"
- Don Herbold

TRUE REALITY is critically important because it is what we as human beings must find if we are to transcend our TRUE LIES (the things we have been conditioned for generations to accept as The TRUTH - but on close scrutiny prove otherwise), so that we are able to live TRULY JOYOUS LIVES.

It is only when we find TRUE REALITY are we able to achieve true joy. Because true joy can only exist on the foundations of TRUE REALITY. Anything less is a dangerous fatal delusion, like tap dancing on quicksand. There is only one outcome - in the end, there it is ... BOOM (wars), GLOOM and DOOM.

SANTA ... THE COKE BILLBOARD

How many of you dudes realize that Santa Clause doesn’t exist, and that he was just the brainchild of an advertising executive who created him, dressed him in the red and white corporate colors of the Coco Cola Company so that he could help the Coca Cola company to sell more Coke to the kids of the world?

Yet the majority of the world’s marketing efforts revolves around this fictitious fat, good for nothing old fart.

Sure you can march out the heavy religious artillery to try to blow away this feeble notion, but what about places like Japan where the concept of Christianity is weak? TRUE REALITY!

The same goes for the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy. What about dogmas like parents know best because kids are too small or too young to know better, or too emotionally and immature and lack the character to understand TRUE REALITY?

So we feed them barrow loads of myths and crap and then look at each other in confusion, or throw our arms into the air in frustration when they evolve into confused, disillusioned teenagers and adults with weak heart muscles, weak mind muscles, and weak soul muscles, and they rightly rebel against our blatant stupidity just to spite us, or take their own lives because death offers them a more comforting path then to endure our erroneous environments built on our frail TRUE LIES.

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Back to contemporary timeless REALITY ...

"The Dumbing Down Of Kids Must End Today"

The first decade of a child’s life are the most critical years of his or her development.

It is the critical period when their brains are most vibrant, most receptive, most open, most neural, most able, most inquisitive, most impressionable, most able to learn to solve problems, and most appropriate for the ASSIMILATION of wisdom, intelligence, knowledge, growth and TRUE REALITY.

They are the most critical years of neural hardwiring for each child. We can hardwire them for peace or we can hardwire them for hate?

We can hardwire them with success and freedom skills, or we can hardwire them for mediocrity and limitations?

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Therefore it is so critical that we expose them to the most complex issues of TRUE REALITY at this most critical period of their lives, so that their minds can expand to embrace even more complex issues before they leave preschool, kindergarten, and primary school.

We adults' profound inability to comprehend this most profound TRUE REALITY is the single most evil catalyst for the destruction of our children’s lives, and therefore the destruction of every generation.

In WEPI's view, the limiting of a child’s freedom to grow limitlessly is the most hideous and most insidious form of child abuse imaginable.

It is far worse then killing a child, or pornography on the Internet, because we shape their minds around limitations and we therefore condemn them to a very long miserable life of suffering in mediocrity by trying to shield them from TRUE REALITY.

And we successfully nurture yet another generation of The Living Dead.

If we trusted our kids with the TRUE REALITY at this early critical formative stage, they would not feel the compelling need to rebel, or just look to their contemporary (same age, same locality) peers for emotional security.

They would courageously look anywhere and everywhere in their Global Serengeti Pack for inspiration and wisdom, because being courageous is the coolest art form there is.

But sadly, despite our moral and parental rhetoric, our fear of losing our winning image and damaging our egos won’t allow us to love our children enough to give them the most precious gift of an unconditional limitless life and the courage to face the truth.

We feel compelled to mold them and shove their heads, hearts, minds and souls through our joy limiting meat grinders so that they live DOWN to our expectations of them.

Fear begets fear, and delusions begets delusions, as another unique and precious soul bites the dust.

KIDS ARE COOL AND THEY'RE PRETTY SMART TOO!

The proliferation of the computer industry emphatically blasts holes in this erroneous dogma that kids are TOO SMALL or TOO YOUNG or TOO IMMATURE or TOO DUMB, because it is the very young, the BITS and BYTES NET GENERATION who are excelling in this most complex and daunting field.

They do so because they are allowed to embrace complex issues at a very young age.

They do so because of our fears of the new, we old dudes give them the freedom to discover and expand their minds without poisoning their limitless minds and desires with our joy and freedom limiting filters.

Emphatically proving that if we trust them with the truth at an early age, they will become more effective and therefore more valuable contributors to our wall (social and infrastructure) building efforts. It is 1998, the dawn of a new millennium, and there’s this young Australian dude named James H, (won’t expose his surname here to protect him), who is just 11 years old, and he is a fully qualified MSCE. That stands for Microsoft Certified Systems Engineer. That means he is an expert in complex computer networks and other related daunting topics. Now the world is full of little techno-nerds like James.

So if kids can effortlessly excel in these most complex fields, then why is it so hard for we decrepit old farts to believe that kids are far wiser, far more mature, far more able, far more competent, and far more emotionally stronger then we give them credit for?

WEPI doesn't want to sound like a worn out old record but just look at Bill Gates and you will see just how powerful the emancipation of just one mind can do for our world if we parents can just trust our children to evolve to their true limitless potential.

Bill used to break into the local businesses and use their computers when he was just a child. Today in his early 40's, Bill Gates has giver over $USD20 billion back to the world through his wonderful foundation.

And kids are certainly wise enough to know what is good and what is bad on the Internet

Why must we old people feel the erroneous attachment to edit and filter our children's evolution from TRUE REALITY?

Why must we continue to delude ourselves that we know what is best for their development and evolution - hell we can't even pick a good stock on the stock market? Click here to learn how to pick stocks without risk.

Why must we censor their books, their movies, their games and their Internet exploration?

Has it occurred to we ineffective, obsolete, moral guardians that;

"it may be this very lack of trust and belief in our children’s ability to handle TRUE REALITY that creates all the evil cancers that we nurturers have plagued humanity with yesterday, today and will emulate tomorrow?"

Cancers like the high youth suicide rates, drug abuse, school shootings, graffiti, insecure attachment to gangs and peer groups.

And because we do not trust them and love them unconditionally when they are young, and challenge them to develop and strengthen their heart (courage), mind and soul muscles, they grow up as insecure, ineffective, disillusioned, wasted dudes and assets of society.

And the perpetuating cycle of abuse continues for yet another lost generation.

Why is an aboriginal god from any land less worthy then a Western or Eastern god?

A WEPI team member once asked a very wise, and very respected Catholic priest where did God come from, and was he real?

The priest's enlightening truthful reply startled the WEPI member with its honesty, and won his trust and respect for him, because it wasn’t an answer that you would expect from a senior priest.

The priest's reply;

"God is something that people created a long time ago to explain those things that could not be explained"

The great late mythologist Joseph Campbell said that;

"Where we human dudes fail ourselves is when we are unable to distinguish the difference between our myths and TRUE REALITY"

How many of us religiously study a company’s annual reports when they have absolutely very little to do with a company’s stock price?

How many CEOs have doctored their financial reports to manipulate the market to drive up their stock price?

A few years ago a stock analyst gave a wrong assessment of Microsoft, and its stock plummeted by hundreds of millions of dollars in a day.

What about the rampant insider trading that makes a mockery of the annual reports?

What about the psychoanalysts’ paradigm that it takes many years of therapy to cure a patient, when super simple technologies like Neuro Linguistic Programming has proven that despite a patient’s long traumatic past, he or she can be cured instantly or at least very quickly

 What about the FAT IS BAD and Carbohydrates ARE GOOD erroneous dogma that global multi-billion dollar industries are built on?

Why do Health food stores sell us nutritional supplements that our bodies cannot absorb?

And yet our entire modern society revolves around these fatal erroneous what WEPI calls CASH-COW Myths.

We push and persist with these erroneous deadly myths because they pay the bills and keep the system going. That’s their only sordid REALITY.

THERE ARE MANY MYTHS THAT WE ERRONEOUSLY ACCEPT AS TRUTHS

Again, the topic here is how do we design the blue prints to enable us to build a superior future. And our future is like a wall, and each of us is a part of that wall. A brick.

How we bring up our children so that they EVOLVE into super limitless, super effective, super free, super accountable, super joyous and super loving dudes.

The answer lies in the quality and courage of the questions we ask ourselves.

Do we nurture super effective TRUE REALITY based children?

Or do we continue to delude ourselves and choose to nurture ineffective FANTASY (erroneous dogma and mores) based children?

So that all the evil fatal cancers of humanity can be perpetuated?

A situation that is totally unacceptable in this the digital, borderless, limitless, emancipating new millennium.

SO HOW DO WE FIND THE

RIGHT INGREDIENTS (THE TRUTH)

SO THAT WE CAN MAKE THE

BEST BRICKS FOR OUR WALLS?

And herein lies the dilemma.

Do we continue to go with the flow and look to our learned oracles of academia for the answers?

Or do we look elsewhere like religion or the learned professions?

Or do we ask people of vast life experiences for their wisdom?

Or do we just trust our intuition to guide us through the confusion?

Or do we consult all of the above and more for our salvation?

JUDITH HARRIS

PARADIGM BUSTER?

OR

PARADIGM ENHANCER?

WEPI believes that Judith is a PARADIGM ENHANCER because her theory complements not replaces the old paradigms of child nurturing.

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Freud did put parents at the epicenter of wall building. But many have since blown holes in the quality of the mixture of Freud’s clay (the sludgy stuff used to nurture human bricks - the building blocks of society).

Psychologists have been pushing the nature/nurture paradigm ever since.

Then comes a PARADIGM ENHANCER like Judith Harris in her beautiful mind expanding work and blows even bigger holes in our fragile REALITY, turning everything we believed for years about wall building upside down, shaking the crap out of it, and putting forward a new recipe for a better clay mixture, so that we could build better walls through our superior courage and understanding.

Judith is telling us that the emperor has no clothes on - that the paradigms of the psychology profession may be wrong. Judith is our Columbus of child rearing. She is trying to show us that the world of child rearing is not flat after all, but it is actually round, as in round the corner with our peer groups.

That it is our peer groups that are the epicenter of our development as kids, and not our parents.

Judith says that as young impressionable dudes, kids don’t want to be like their parents, but they try to be different from them, to contrast them. So that they are not unruly rebels without a cause as we like to label them, but they are rebels with a specific purpose, to be like the dominant dudes of their peer groups.

This is a good reason why adults should not play the dominant role in charting the course of profound platforms like the Internet, because we just don’t know what is best for our youth and their future.

And by forcing our dogma and crap down their throat all we will manage to do is alienate them and drive them away.

And they become rebels with a cause - to squander their valuable lives doing all they can to prove us wrong, or doing it just to piss us off.

They probably don’t know what is best for themselves either, but shouldn’t we have the wisdom and courage and unconditional love to just trust them to evolve limitlessly without our forced limiting paradigms?

THE PURPOSE

The purpose of this special WEPI KOOL TOOL is to take Judith’s wonderful new paradigm to a far higher level where we can finally free our kids' hearts, minds and souls, and therefore allow humanity to more effectively build the most beautiful bricks with the most purest and most powerful of life’s best building elements - REALITY ...

FULLY EMPOWERED LIMITLESS KIDS.

Anything less is totally unacceptable. We are going to try to do this by forgetting the majority of stuff from the BJH (Before Judith Harris) period, and focus on the AJH (After Judith Harris) period. So here we go;

Yes it is foolish, naive and erroneous for we adults to place ourselves at the epicenter of kids' development.

 

Yes parents don’t have to be perfect to be great parents.

 

Yes kids are super tough and not fragile vessels.

 

Yes kids may appear to want to please their peers.

 

Yes kids want to dress like their peers.

 

Yes kids want to talk like their peers.

 

Yes kids want to walk like their peers.

 

Yes kids want to be like their peers.

 

Yes kids should pay attention to their peers to gain inspiration and acceptance so that they are part of the new wave of future walls.

 

But kids also have this powerful desire to be unique. The dilemma of the new millennium.

 

But wall building is a fine art that needs so much more because it is the most critical of humanity's art forms.

It is what and who we are.

Every fragile wall of the past has reflected the paradigms of the previous wall.

So let’s find better paradigms on which to build better walls.

Nothing else matters ...

Because if we cannot get this platform right this time, then the future will continue to look very bleak for us, because the digital divide is growing wider and deeper each day as rivals' hate for each other grow and the affluent extend their advantages further over the rest of us.

The rich are getting richer as the poor fall behind and get poorer. What will our legacy be to the future -

SERFDOM - limited slaves to the very rich ...

OR

SURFDOM - limitless power from the Internet?

That is the question.

But what is my answer today?

What is your answer today?

WELCOME TO THE TAO - THE ULTIMATE REALITY

Yes, welcome to the  free world of the TAO.

The TAO is a beautiful ancient Chinese term that means THE WAY TO REALITY.

Yes, scrape away the man made or man induced bull dust (deluded paradigms) and there you will find the TAO - TRUE REALITY.

But we won't scrape because it is too painful to scrape, and besides we have never loved our children enough to do the scraping, because we love ourselves (egos and winning image) too damn much.

Every psychologist should make the TAO the cornerstone of their careers.

They should begin their research with the TAO, and build from there. For example, before you dive into a new study to prove or disprove one of your theories, ask yourself what is the TAO here?

What is the REALITY here? Instead of just plucking a number out of the air for the size of your study group, use the TAO to ask what size should my study group be if I want to achieve a REALITY (TAO) based conclusion?

And the TAO will tell you. And do the same with the quality of the research questions you ask your study group. Which questions should I ask if I want a REALITY based conclusion as opposed to subjective questions that will confirm and support my theories? And the TAO will tell you.

If you use the TAO, you will realize the TRUE REALITY.

If you can totally guarantee that a member of the study group's knowledge of being a part of a study group will not influence the member's thinking and behavior by one trillionth of a percent, then you will have a TAO based study that can be qualified.

Anything less is an erroneous mockery that will not endure the tests of time. There is no halfway house for this. Either it is TRUE REALITY based? Or it is not?

How many people tell lies when participating in a poll?

How many polls are effective in picking a certain outcome?

We all have hidden agendas, and as the old axiom warns us -

"If you haven’t spoken to me in the last five minutes dude, then don’t quote me, because I am a super cool evolving dude who is bombarded by mass information because of technology, and my views are subject to change by the minute as I am exposed to the information explosion each second of my day."

THE DEADLY BUSINESS OF GENERALIZING

Birds of a feather flock together ...

Then there is the complex issue of cultural differences. Is the study group an honest TRUE REALITY based reflection of the global cultural reality?

Or is it just a convenient lottery of different dudes from the same place armed with the same mindset and paradigms?

As any advertising executive will tell you, cultural differences is a big deal in the real world. Treat one market like the last or the next, without thorough testing, and you’re choosing the painful one-way road of failure.

Men kissing each other in one culture is embraced, but in another it doesn’t cut it. And it isn’t good enough to recruit dudes who have different cultural backgrounds, but come from the same corner of the world.

Because the next generation kids always evolves and embraces different new paradigms instead of blindly accepting those old dogma from their migrant parents.

Hey, that’s the TAO of life, so don’t shoot the messenger.

So if we genuinely want to find the truth about how kids truly evolve, we must include kids from all cultures from all nations to get the most accurate truth, instead of cramming our western paradigms down the rest of the world's throat.

A true double blind test??? The blind leading the blind???

"An old dude with old paradigms

is like a fart, a foul irrelevant

blast from the past"
- Valerie J. Elly

And I guess this is the basis for Judith’s theory - we emulate our buddies, not our parents.

Kids transcend their parents and evolve because they ardently believe (whether right or wrong) that their parents are from an uninspiring old obsolete era - so they believe.

And they have this powerful driving force to be seen and accepted by their peers as hip and cool. It is a force that is so compelling that it cannot be defied. Because it is what and who we are ...

Gregarious insecure dudes who want to belong to the greater coolest group - the global Rat Pack.

Global advertisers have known about this awesome universal magical selling (driving) force for generations, and they have used it to sell their wares to us in droves for generations.

The global giants like BMW, Nike, Levis, Coke, Pepsi and McDonald’s know the universal powerful emotional selling forces of PEER GROUP PRESSURE and boy do they use it ruthlessly against us to herd us into the way they want us to live our lives immersed in their products and services.

But this only works because we humans are PASSIONATE GREGARIOUS CREATURES. WE LOVE TO BELONG TO A SUPER COOL GANG, whether it is the local RAT PACK, a local sporting fan club, or be a part of the yuppie club, driving Volvos and BMWs, eating at the right places with the right people, and shopping for the right brands in the right shops in the right part of town. Our regional chapter of the global body.

"A man who has been the indisputable favorite of his mother keeps for life the feeling of a conqueror. That confidence of success that often induces real success"
- Freud

WEPI's PARADIGM SHATTERING GREGARIOUS GLOBAL SERENGETI (RAT) PACK THEORY

And WEPI believes that is exactly how the character of a modern child is developed and shaped - the entire spectrum of forces and influences combine to frame each unique child's character.

The Serengeti Dogs are a microcosm of the world of a child and how he or she develops through life.

And herein lies the flaw in Judith Harris's theory - Not by ideal, but by degrees ...

By degrees we mean that the peer group CHARACTER SHAPING INFLUENCE should not be limited to the immediate age or locality based associates but extended to encapsulate the widest possible network from parents to global icons like sports and movie star idols to even non human characters like Bart Simpson, Power Rangers and the Lion King.

Even characters from a favorite book or music video cannot be excluded.

Even influences like Barbie cannot be discounted as members of a child's Global Peer Group - The Global Serengeti Rat Pack.

So the influencing forces of a child's character is not a narrow few degrees as Judith suggests, but extends to the widest possible corners of our universe, yes including Star-Trek.

Every child, even those who belong to regions in the most remote and primitive of places, are influenced by powerful family, sibling, regional, national and global forces.

You cannot deny that Bill Gates has not inspired many millions of young minds to become future techno-nerds worth billions of dollars.

You cannot deny that sporting and pop stars like Madonna, Michael Jackson, Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods influence the character and direction of a child's life.

The global mentor-effects of icons like Jordan, woods, Madonna, Gates, Dell, and the like is what truly inspires and drives kids to evolve. Kids' local peer groups are only transient vehicles which they use to kill time until they grow up and move on to the real world.

Sadly some kids fail to break away from the local pack to move to the next level of their intended evolution. But that's another important story for us ...

Even Freud had boyhood influences like Cromwell and Hannibal.

The development of a child goes through what WEPI calls the Transitional Journey - where the child's character is shaped by its genes and its entire environment, even while in its mother's womb, where they hear and taste everything their mother experiences, even music, as it passes through each phase of its life it evolves as it absorbs new paradigms from the widest spectrum of influences from life, as it discards old obsolete paradigms when they are less effective for the child - whether this strategy is right or wrong for the child.

The moment the child pops out off his/her mom's belly, it begins its perpetual character shaping process by sucking up and spiting out anything and everything that it deems cool and relevant.

But how Mom and dad and other players (nurturers) communicate with the child through sight, voice and more importantly through the child's skin (TACTILE COMMUNICATION) will shape how the child will evaluate the massive volumes of signals (influences) it encounters throughout its precious life.

Every child is unique, and therefore it is absolutely foolishness to corral all children into the same development path or cycle.

If the child's parents are bastards, the child may choose to alienate them or even make a greater effort to understand its parents dilemma. Every child evolves differently. Those who have access to technology will develop differently to those who do not.

Cultural and social influences are very powerful forces. Witness the perpetuation of evils like honor killing and slavery. Which forces made these people into creatures who accept abuse and murder as rational acts?

What about the massive youth movement that Hitler inspired?

The Global Peer Group Pressure is evolving into a universal cultural force. Because of the pervasive powers of mass media technologies like the Internet, Pay TV and television, along with global brands and global products like sport, music, movies, DVD, computer games and TV shows, kids are becoming an integral part of the GREGARIOUS, UNIVERSAL, GLOBAL SERENGETI (RAT) PACK.

A teenager’s bedroom, music, sneakers, toys, hobbies, clothes, and the demigods they worship reflect those in the USA and other developed parts of the world. Because these nations have the greater control of mass-media.

A recent fun study done in the late 1990's in Australia to identify which sporting hero the Aussie kids worshipped the most, and the researchers were shocked to find out that it was not a local sporting figure, but none other then Michael Jordan of the Chicago Bulls fame.

The Tiger probably has replaced Jordan by now. So the rules are changing at breakneck speed for the traditional regional cultural purveyors. Will they keep up?

How do we old dudes sell our kids on retaining our traditional cultures, while encouraging them to expand their minds (or risk being left behind in the future), to embrace the explosion of universal influences and trends that are engulfing the entire planet?

The problem with us is that we tend to frame our research by the focus of our goals. If you're a hammer, everything tends to look like a nail. Judith Harris's use of her daughters to prop up her theory is fraught with danger.

Could it not be that Elaine's perceived inability to cope with life or her rebelliousness was due more to Judith's inability to comprehend Elaine's call for help, then with Elaine's perceived character flaws?

Judith and her husband may have treated their natural daughter far differently then they did their adopted daughter? A very natural thing.

 May be they held them differently?

May be they held one child like a real daughter and the other like an adopted child?

May be the adopted child overheard her parents talking about how she was a HIGH MAINTENANCE child, which she was or became?

May be they over compensated by giving the adopted child more love and attention, thereby insulting the child's intelligence and ability to cope with true reality, that she was adopted?

Judith is assuming that she is a perfect parent and that her daughter is an imperfect child. But the reverse may be true?

May be Judith and her husband didn't know how to give their adopted daughter unconditional love - only their inhibiting conditioned love, which we all do as parents?

May be Judith failed like the rest of us, by failing to empower her adopted daughter by harnessing the powerful art of TOUCHING WITH LOVE.

Regardless of the true reason for Judith's adopted daughter's rebellious path, the fact is that Judith, who is an integral and critical member of her daughter's Global Serengeti Pack (her Global Peer Group), did directly impose profound influence on her character.

KIDS HATE BEING DUMB-DOWNED

Kids want reality, and they just absolutely hate being treated like dumb bastards.

The sooner we adults realize this most powerful natural law of life, the sooner we will free and empower our kids, and our kids will begin to magically evolve to become powerful limitless creatures capable of building the greatest of walls for us all.

We must accept the TRUE REALITY that we all contribute to a child's evolution. No one group can lay exclusive claim to a child's heart, mind and soul and evolution.

TIME TO STOP CATEGORIZING OUR KIDS WITH LIMITING TITLES AND LIMITING PARADIGMS?

May be it's time for we narrow minded authoritarian dichotomous relics to free our children from our limiting constraints, after all the emancipation of humanity is the objective of the psychology field.

May be it's time to stop labeling our kids as kids or children and begin calling them young adults or AA's - Apprentice Adults?

And lose our obsession with categorizing them as male or female, and just treat them as limitless human beings regardless of their sex?

Wouldn't that be the ideal mixture to build our future walls deep so that they can grow to limitless widths and heights?

 TACTILE COMMUNICATION

THE ULTIMATE KEY TO A SUPERIOR SOCIETY IN THIS NEW MILLENNIUM

The quality of our TACTILE COMMUNICATIONS with our children determines which peer groups our children gravitate to???

If we adult nurturers want to nurture LIMITLESS powerful children, we must learn how to empower our children through superior TACTILE COMMUNICATION.

We must learn to empower our children through our empowering powers of our TOUCH.

We must learn to empower our children through our empowering loving TOUCH.

We must learn how to transmit our UNCONDITIONAL LOVE to our children through their high powered, highly developed, under rated SKIN's MIND.

If we can do this, the potential joy and prosperity we will enjoy in the future will be ABSOLUTELY LIMITLESS. And that is an IRON GLAD GUARANTEE from the WEPI Team.

PEER PRESSURE CAN BE ELIMINATED

Local Peer Pressure only exists because of we adults' failure to use TACTILE COMMUNICATION to convey unconditional love to our children.

Both girls and boys need and must have tons of quality unconditional loving TACTILE COMMUNICATION from the day they are born to well into their teens and beyond.

Remember the movie Rebel Without A Cause, with James Dean and Natalie Wood. The young girl wanted her father's affection and touch, but her father (with his old limiting paradigms) refused to co-operate, in fact he humiliated her in front of the family telling her that she should wake up to herself because she was too old for that type of stuff.

And he drove her away and she rebelled and looked for love in all the wrong places.

In fact we need TACTILE COMMUNICATION every day of our lives till the day we die, it is that crucial for our well-being.

In fact TACTILE COMMUNICATION actually begins in our mother's womb when her daily movements, environment and contractions begin caressing and shaping us ...

THE BMW (SNOB) SYNDROME

TACTILE COMMUNICATION is the glue that holds and forms a child's character and self-worth. See WEPI's ROSE ARSENAL.

Without tons of TACTILE COMMUNICATION our character and self-value is very fragile and we become easy prey from negative peer group pressure.

With it, we are able to securely assimilate into any peer group and eventually transcend it and move on and evolve with other more empowering levels.

We invest in BMW's and The Brands because we did not receive enough quality TACTILE COMMUNICATION as a child and therefore our low self-esteem and emotional insecurities drives us to crave to belong to what society erroneously deems The Ultimate CROWD.

KIDS TRUST AND WORSHIP THEIR GLOBAL IDOLS

Because we are (or should be) all responsible for the evolution of our Global SERENGETI PACK, it is critical that we realize that all of us has the powers to influence our kids, no matter where they may live in the world. Our songs and films influence our kids. Our video games influence our children.

There's a fine line between pleasure and pain.

Like the Serengeti Dogs we must all take an accountable active role in how all of our children around the world evolve, and not just leave it up to parents or regional forces.

Not because we can continue to manipulate them, but to emancipate them from our obsolete and limiting dogma and paradigms, so that they can begin to live absolutely limitless lives, free of our limiting fears, low expectations and interference.

We must accept the reality that we just don't know what is good for our children in the future.

Hell, you don't have to be a rocket scientist to see that job or career security is a thing of the past.

We must choose to nurture our kids into fearless warriors of life - so that they can live boldly and with total freedom from limitations. And we do this through superior unconditional TACTILE COMMUNICATION and other cool things.

ARE MOM AND DAD ARE COWARDS

The problem is that our parents are TACTILE COMMUNICATION COWARDS, especially our men (dads), and then we the next generation become cowards as well. Because we were taught by the experts of TACTILE TIMIDITY. So the very fabric of each society becomes more tenuous and all our social and emotional evils perpetuate, condemning each new generation to the past.

So dads be bold and get hugging ... the world needs you to hug, caress, kiss and touch your kids with your empowering unconditional love.

Chapter Five of Dr. Ross Campbell's wonderful work - How To Really Love your Child is a very enlightening journey that every parent must make. Some cool sojourns are Gael Lindenfield's - Confident Children; Rosemary Graham's - Surviving Childhood; Barbara Coloroso's - Kids Are Worth It! and H. Samm Coombs' - Teenage Survival Manual; James Redfield's - The Celestine Prophecy, are just a few enlightening nourishment for our minds and hearts if we genuinely want to nurture limitless more joyous kids.

Not all their views are relevant but they are still worth the taste.

They may just trigger something in you that no-one else can see and you can share that wisdom with the rest of us???

TIME TO PASS THE BATON

Now it is up to you experts in academia to find a better theory to the WEPI INSTITUTE’s scrappy elucidation to this time old problem of where does our character and consciousness originate from.

A great place to begin your new journey to enlightenment may well be with Jeremy Griffith's wonderful work - BEYOND THE HUMAN CONDITION published by the Foundation For Humanity's Adulthood - Sydney, Australia.

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PROOF THAT WEPI's KOOL TOOLS ARE INDEED CUTTING EDGE STUFF FOR THE EMPOWERMENT OF KIDS

Try this wonderful resource that became available a little while after this wonderful WEPI KOOL TOOL was published on the Net to confirm that the philosophies behind many of WEPI's wonderful KOOL TOOLs - and also discover exactly why it is so critical that we focus on our children's critical formative years, from the moment of birth to 3 to 5 years of age, the critically important period when what WEPI terms a child's "lifetime platform" - the foundations of a child's neural network are laid, and on which a child's future emotional destiny and stability is formed, or what WEPI terms - HARD-WIRED for life ...

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WE EMPOWER OUR KIDS THE MOMENT THEY ARE BORN

And you could also venture into wonderful havens like Ashley Montagu's TOUCHING - The Human Significance Of The Skin to see why TACTILE EXPERIENCE (The Mind of the Skin) may be a far more powerful force for shaping a child's character then even Parents and Peer Groups.

How about venturing into a haven like Wayne Dyer's wonderful work - The Sky's The Limit, to expand our dichotomous paradigms and take us far higher to a more reality based understanding of how children's evolutions are shaped?

May be we should lighten up and stop trying to be right, and just get on with living unconditionally loving lives, and teach our kids to do the same?

Or you could study a research article by Fortune Magazine - May 16th. 1994 titled - Teens The Most Global Market Of All, that will shed more insight on how the mind of the youth around the world may be shaped in these modern pro-commercial times.

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A couple of sources to give you a reality based insight into how the modern child's character may be shaped by some strange global forces. Forces we cannot ignore because their powers to manipulate our minds are profound.

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TACTILE COMMUNICATION KOOL TOOL

JUST ANOTHER BRICK IN THE WALL
The Art Of Building A Better Society - Our Social Wall
A Mind Expanding Thought By Brian B. Elly
For The WEPI INSTITUTE And The Kids Of The World

[sic as in a perfect copy of our sinister selves]

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May the WEPIFORCE be with you always!

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